Kadiring Manchild: A Rant
I dated this manchild with 4-year gap in my late 20s (I am older) and my standard became firm after him. Alam ko naman yong gusto ko when I met him but I compromised a lot just to keep seeing him. I kept telling him how grateful I am to him pa while we were dating which I genuinely felt.
Then it turned casual cause he can’t see himself committing to someone who won’t submit to him daw. Yes, I know misogynistic sya. The casual setup wasn’t constant and it was short but he would message me for the next 1 year para mag-aya.
Kadiri that I let myself respond to him kasi sabi ko sa sarili ko ayokong may pagsisihan. Just chats wala nang physical encounters. Those months that he would directly ask to have sex with him were the months he was dating another girl kahit I explicitly asked him to drop me as soon as he started dating someone else. Kadiri that he’d brush the topic off whenever I ask if there’s a girl then he’d continue to invite me to have sex with him. When I finally saw evidence of them going out, I mustered all the courage to snitch him to the girl. Kadiri that the girl blamed me for not doing a bg check pa raw?? (But were yours successful?) I disengaged as soon as the blame was put on my shoulders kasi it felt like arguing for his sake if makipag-argue pa. Bagay naman pala sila then I’d let them be.
Sana wag nyo nang pakawalan ang isa’t isa. I thought I’d never wish this to my worst enemy but I hope your life is miserable.
And that was a hard lesson learned for dating potential.