Ending my 4 year relationship.
I’ve decided to finally end things with my bf (M24). I’m going through waves of emotions. At times, I am confident of my decision and I know this is the right thing for me. But I am extremely upset that it didn’t work out. Also we just moved in together a little over a month ago. So this was my last straw: We decided to go out drinking, we met up with some of his friends and I took one of my girlfriends. Then me, my bf and my friend end up going to a pizza place and it was very busy. It was around 2:30 am, I’ve never been in this area but it looked like it was in an area with lots of bars and clubs around. This random drunk guy goes up to my friend and just starts saying how she’s very pretty and complementing her and my bf at the time says she’s very pretty out loud too. And I was just shocked that he said that but at the moment I didn’t say anything. Then I ask him, “did you just call her very beautiful?” He stayed quiet, then he immediately starts asking me if he should Uber to his parents house and I was just like why would you go and leave us Here Alone so I told him do what you wanna do & that he wanted to leave because he felt guilty. me and my friend go to the restroom. And when we come back he left. He left us alone in an unknown area. I was shocked that he left me there alone. then we Uber back to my apartment and he wouldn’t let me in to the apartment & I didn’t have my keys. He opened the door for a brief second and then he locked me out again and I was outside waiting for like 10 minutes, then he finally opens the door. He then proceeds to call his mom asking her to send his brother to go pick him up. So he left me again. I haven’t seen him since Friday night. Its now Sunday morning. I just feel like he’s a coward for not coming and talking to me. He’s just barely texting me “im sorry” or “how are you”. No effort what so ever to fix things.