u/MajesticTax9887

I’m the custodial parent and he has visitation every other weekend. He can also see them whenever with communication. He’s done it three times now. The first time I texted him it was fine but next time to communicate before hand because I had work. He went off about it being 50/50 and I can’t control him. I said I have no problem him spending time with them. It just needs to be communicated prior in case we have plans or something going on. The next time he showed up randomly same thing. Today he did it again. Stating I can’t control him. Is the only way to stop this filing a violation or the custody agreement?