u/Lynn1012

I'm 40, own my place, have a career with a great salary and plenty of men have found me attractive. Obviously everyone has different taste so I'm sure there's plenty of men that don't find me attractive either but my biggest issue is I wonder if the fact that I truly don't need anything in life scares men off. I really just want to hear honest opinions from men.

I know that's just a snippet of the whole picture. I am divorced and have a 5 year old so I understand that could also be something someone isn't interested in. I just really want to know if my independence is a factor.