Wueh…
So I recently started dating this guy and obsessed is honestly an understatement. I know he loves me, no doubt.
BUT.
This man does not know how to behave in public 😭
Like we had friends over, I’m there trying to be a proper host “Guys, what are we having for dinner?”simple, normal question. This man looks me dead in the eye and says, “I want to have you for dinner.”
Sir.
In front of guests???
Anyway, I ignore it, I settle on ugali nyama .Then he goes, “Leo supper tunakula hadi mpishi
It gets worse.
There were a lot of our friends around, so we invite one of the girls to crash in our bed. Tell me why this man is trying to bribe her with alcohol so he can “get a chance” with me??
I love how much he wants me. I really do. It’s flattering, it’s fun, and let’s be honest… it’s not a struggle I’m trying to end completely.
But also… sometimes I’m just there like 😐
And the worst part? Our friends don’t even react. They’re the type who would fuck mbele yetu
So now I’m stuck between:
Enjoying being loved loudly
And wanting to disappear into the nearest sufuria when he opens his mouth
I need to tell him to tone it down without killing the vibe or making him feel like I don’t appreciate him.
Because I do.
Just… maybe not in front of a full house like it’s a live performance 💀
but anyway is it just me or his behaviour is cringe ?