u/Low_Sound_7184

This is a shower thought I just had: before the 2000s it was possible for many families in the western world to have a bread winner and a home maker aka in most cases husband and wife and the typical gender rolls you'd associated with them.

Uneven rate constants in the rise of salary and cost of living forced the homemaker into the labour force in many places. Which leads to more financial independence and freedom for women and therefore benefiting feminist goals?

I'm sure I'm missing a bunch of details, of course it's not possible to capture the whole topic in this short text.

https://preview.redd.it/caajiho997wg1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=d54d42b611772bd76359633813da11e2c3509c45

Zewas,

Ich persönlich bin der Meinung dass Kebab der beste und preiswerteste Imbiss ist den man in Österreich kaufen kann und dass Leberkassemmel, Kasgreiner und co. koa Leibal ned hom.

Warum? Weil a Kebab alles hod wos ma braucht: Fleisch, Brot und Grünzeug, und des für an Preis wo di ondere Optionen ned mal in die Nöhe kumman. A Leberkassemmel? Nur Fleisch im Brot, fertig. A Kasgreiner? Nur Wurst, sonst nix. Und für des zoin ma teilweise mehr als Sinn mocht. Für an ordentlichen Kebab der di wirklich satt macht bist am Preiswertesten unterwegs. Alles andere ist entweder zu teuer, zu einseitig oder schlicht und einfach orsch.

Wos is eicher Lieblings Snack?

(Meme für Aufmerksamkeit, Biermarke zensiert weil ich keine gratis Werbung mache)

Alle meine jetzigen Freunde kennen ich entweder "von Zuhause" oder aus der Universität.

Bald zieh ich für meinen Traumjob in ein Land/Stadt in dem ich die Sprache nicht spreche und nimaden kenne. Hat jemand Tipps wie ich Anschluss finde und mir ein soziales Netzwerk aufbauen kann?

So we all just agreed at some point that aggressive, vulgar, threatening language is just "how guys talk" and moved on. Nobody questioned it. Nobody asked why.

Women are generally more considerate with their language, more polite, more aware of how their words affect the people around them. That's not a coincidence. And its definitely not because they're biologically wired to be nicer. They're socialized to be thoughtful while men are socialized to be loud, aggressive and unchecked.

That kind of language has always functioned as a dominance tool. It makes female spaces uncomfortable, it keeps women quieter in public conversations, and it rewards men for being the loudest and most unhinged in the room.

Go into any male dominated space, gaming, finance, stand up comedy, and women are just expected to adapt to whatever toxic language culture already exists there. Like they walked into someone else's house and have to follow the rules without ever being asked if those rules are fair.

Is it pure socialization? Probably yeah. But the more interesting question is why so many people are weirdly defensive about changing it?