I have been with my partner for almost 4 years. 5 all together. We hit a snag around the 3 year mark but worked through it. I have the qualities of a girlfriend , a lover, and a best friend but not the qualities of a wife. The reasons he gave me
i feel are very superficial. because i won’t “rub his back”
or “rub his feet” after i told him I won’t rub his feet until i have a ring on my finger because i hate feet. I told him i just think he doesn’t wanna marry me because these are things that aren’t based on my character but what i can do for him.
he claims on minute he just need to get the money to be the ring. then the next he says it’s because he doesn’t see wifely qualities in me “yet”. i love him but i feel like im getting dragged along but he swears im not. advice???