My BF and I first broke up last January 25. I just told him to break up with me for invalidating my feelings coz he dropped the call for the first time while I was still talking. Two weeks later, I reached out to him and realized I still love him so I talked to him and he said he needed time. Everyday, I texted him and he answered like the usual until March 10 we had a serious talk and eventually got back together. He said he still loves me and he still wants a future with me. I had really no doubts at all but after 4 days, I found that another girl posted on about him as her new found love.
He technically cheated on me right? he was having a whole relationship with a girl while we were on break until we reconciled. I reached out to the girl. She said they were on since March 12 after talking with him from January 31
She was devasted after we talked that she found out she was treated like a buffer between him and I. She broke up with him and blocked him. On the same day, he introduced me to his mother and we talked for a bit. When we had our alone time, I confronted him about the other girl and he said he was just having good conversation with her and its just that. He didnt have feelings and I should'nt worry about it coz its done. He will not contact her.
I accepted it all. I know ball what I was doing. I still fu++king love him despite all of that. Love is blind isn't it? but yeah I literally forgave him. My love was bigger than the hurt.
April 10, we called and talked about his account on a live community. He made it a year ago but then he lied to my face that he made it last February. I knew there's another girl who always joins his live and she's a bit flirty with him. I said to him that he's being untruthful to me. I WAS MAD AT HIM. It was late so he ended the call and I went to sleep. That's 8pm
11pm, he blocked me leaving a message that he will definitely miss me and that I should take care of myself. I know right? what an a-hole~
April 28, I reached out to him thru email. Asking if we could talk. He didn't respond to me yet. I just really needed a proper breakup for me to move on. I know yall say I dont need it at all coz the silent was really loud but I need him to say it to my face and act like a real man. And I needed an explanation and an acceptable reason. An over a year of relationship and daily check ins is already long right?
Please dont hate me. I just really need some good advice and reality check.
Should I tell his mom?