u/LowLeading4587

Hey guys, I just wanted to ask if anyone has any really good getting over a breakup advice

For context we were together for around a year before I broke it off because there was these small things that I kept noticing that I didn't like and we did talk abt it but she would genuinely lie out of nothing occasionally and even though we talked it through I thought it would be best. We did talk and say it would be okay to work on ourselves and get back together in the future (so we stayed friends) and then all of a sudden she says we can't and gave me a lie of an excuse to why so it kinda just all blew up from there and it was awful.. she started talking abt not caring about me anymore and all sorts of stuff that came out of nowhere??? so we're no contact now..

I do feel like i feel much better than when this all happened but there's days or especially at night where I just feel awful and feel as if I ruined something good for minor things but then I think abt what she did after and it kinda goes away. I try to keep as busy as possible and see my friends and all of that but sometimes I feel like one set forward just three steps back especially when it seems like she doesn't care or shows zero remorse about anything. It's just this feeling that maybe the time we were together and everything we did meant nothing if she didn't even think I deserved some type of explanation.. like im breaking my head trying to understand the why to things and i know its useless but idk..

I just need tips or anything that has helped anyone get over a similar feeling or just anything!

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