u/Low-Team8524

Im 20f and my brother is 14m. We have always been like fighting, he always annoys me. Everyday. He has laughed and smiled at my face before when i got mad at him so i went to my room and cried and cut myself. Thats usually what i do since i dont know how to handle this. This morning we were eating breakfast and he said give me the paper since his was messy and then said thanks my butler. I got so irritated my that and slapped his chest. Didnt mean to slap hard but just slapped him there. He got so angry and hit me back and said i am always the one to hit or kick him first. When he says so mean stuff things to me i kick him or just slap his arm or leg or something. But today after i hit him, he slapped my back so hard. So now im crying in my room and cutting myself. I dont know how to handle all the mean things he says to me. He loves to irritate me and he said that himself. I cant handle that every fucking day. So hit or push him away. Idk what to do abt this situation.

Im 20f and always argue with my brother 14m. My dad and brother moved in with me and my mom for some time until they find an apartment. We have been fighting alot. Even over the smallest things, he gets pissed off. Shouting, hitting and cussing. I think he might have ADHD or something bc this is not normal. I also get so angry with him when he is so mean and says the meanest things to me and my mom, like saying im a bitch, he will slap me, calling my mom poor and a pig. I have slapped him before, not on face but like back and arm bc i dont know what to do bc he wont listen. I regret slapping him but theres no way to take that back now. I have epilepsy also and he said, if u have a seizure i dont care. I got so sad after hearing that, basically saying he dont care if i die. He keeps annoying me and doesnt shut up. He says he cant control it. He said to me that he dont care how other people feel. I said dont u care abt how the other person might feel and he said no. Seems to have no compassion. Gets to the point when we fight that he actually scares me. Iknow he is only 14 but he has been to angry that he made me scared. Just needed to write this and put this out to the world instead of cutting myself right now bc thats what i usually do after we fight. I get so sad and angry that the only way to cope is to cut myself.