u/Low-Singer7346

So you’re at a club, festival, party,… You are flirting with someone with positive response. At what point do you mention you are in a cnm? Do you mention it at all? Is it a turnoff for many people?

I tend to be honest as fast as possible, but then again, I feel like it can be perceived as “Hey, I’m looking for a threesome.” Or “Hey, tbh, I’m just trying to get in your pants asap.”

What are your experiences?