What “trust your gut feeling” moment made you” get off dating apps for good or take a long break?
I matched with this guy who, on the day of our date said he wanted to cancel unless I gave him my number. I said I wasn't comfortable doing that unless we met in person first and we could continue talking on the app. I stood firm, and, of course, we didn't end up going on the date. I hesitated to give him my number as well because he worked in cybersecurity and knew I could be in for a stalker if he had my number. I really wanted to meet him first and then decide if I wanted to move forward.
I met this girl at my friend's party who is also on the dating apps and tells me she is having a really hard time. She tells me about this creepy guy she matched with, gave her number to, who won't stop trying to communicate with her after declining a second date. When she described him and told me his name I believe they are the same person.
I am so happy I stood my ground and protected my boundary because that could of been me. she told me she keeps blocking him but he keeps trying to reach out. 😬
I am so happy I followed my gut and didn't give in. I am taking a break. so many of the men are turn out to be creeps and push boundaries.