Mil thinks I’m taking the baby away from her
Soo I told my mil the other day to please not pick up my baby every time she cries and my reasoning was because I want her to kinda learn to self soothe just because I have 4 kids and one of my kids is only one and I just had a newborn. So if you guys could imagine I’m pretty busy juggling all of them especially because I have no help. My fiancé is just that kinda guy that works and does nothing more. Anyways so I told my mil just give her maybe a minute or two to cry then pick her up especially if me and her both know I just fed changed and burped her. Bc sometimes she will go back to sleep by herself. So my mil told my fiance I was taking the baby away from her and not letting her hold her?? I guess I shouldn’t have said that?? I didn’t think it was mean or disrespectful? So then I came home and told her you can hold the baby I just meant something else and she didn’t accept my apology and she started yelling at me saying please don’t bother my son?? (My fiance) WHAT? Bother her son? He won’t comes home goes out with his friends his one day off is Sunday he still goes out with his friends. I never complain to him or get mad about it because this has been going on for years and I just don’t care anymore it gets old. But for her to tell me don’t bother her son and I am home with the kids and take care of the house with out ANY of his help literally since the day our newborn was born I have don’t everything woke up with her never asked him to help but I bother him???? Guys am I going crazy or what?