I dont know how to feel [22F] [26m]
Well this is kind of a different situation. I was dating this guy. Let’s call him H… H and I were on and off together. So back in January, I downloaded Tinder and got this really hot guys number. Let’s call him S
S and I were talking but not serious.
H and I get back together… throughout the time S is messaging me, but I am not messaging him back
Well, it turns out my job signed up for an event and we had a booth for one week.
And I see S.. and he sees me and he messages me saying was that you and I said no
It was Monday to Monday this booth and apparently S also has a booth
But I’m also in a relationship with H so out throughout the week, I was running away and hiding from S and I didn’t think about it.
But H decided it was time to be off again the last day of our event
So after our event, I hung out with S..
And then the next week, H says I’m done completely
So I focussed my time on S
We hang out one more time as I so we only hungout twice
S is in the military and he got really distant one day and I asked him what was wrong and he said I’m being posted somewhere else. In three months so I don’t want to get any more attached so I can’t talk to you anymore.
And now I feel terrible because this guy has been wanting to hang out since January.., and I was hiding from him at our event… but I was in a relationship with someone else.. I feel like I wasted my time because H is terrible
I know I don’t know what to think like at one hand. I’m happy that I didn’t cheat on H but the other hand I feel like I should’ve just called it off with H and went out with S and I would’ve been way more happy