u/LittleDrink5990

I know this sounds like empathy at first but im not sure, i have this issue where if someone im close to is actually going through something and is really sad im put into a bad mindset as well and i start to get into a phase where i feel very sad. But it feels really selfish, like suddenly im getting sad and having to worry about myself when im wanting to worry about someone else. Is my brain being competitive and trying to have worse issues than those around me so i pity myself more? I dont understand why i get like this and i feel really guilty and selfish about it. Any idea on what this is specifically or how to fix it or what it could stem from? anything helps

I know this sounds like empathy at first but im not sure, i have this issue where if someone im close to is actually going through something and is really sad im put into a bad mindset as well and i start to get into a phase where i feel very sad. But it feels really selfish, like suddenly im getting sad and having to worry about myself when im wanting to worry about someone else. Is my brain being competitive and trying to have worse issues than those around me so i pity myself more? I dont understand why i get like this and i feel really guilty and selfish about it. Any idea on what this is specifically or how to fix it or what it could stem from? anything helps

Im wanting to make a polymer clay sculpture doll thing with an armature. Ive never worked with clay and i know it’s a risky first project but I’m gonna try my best. Im not sure how ill lay it in the oven or what ill lay it on, I’m worried that it’ll flatten out where its layed down, so how should it be positioned? And any tips for making a good clay doll out of DAS polymer clay with little experience would be appreciated.

Im going to the UK for two months and am not sure what card i should use. I only have a cash app and i heard that Wise is good for switching currencies, but i dont know if im meant to use another card after that?