u/Lifeisliveandlearn

The flowery south Tampa

The flowery south Tampa

I was able to visit the new location today! I got 14gs of blue lobster for a great deal after points & military discount!

I also got a full tour recorded on my meta display glasses but sadly I can’t post videos here :/

Great location amazing staff! A special shoutout to mikayla (sorry if I butchered that)

Also Dutch bros across the street!!!

u/Lifeisliveandlearn — 6 hours ago
▲ 2 r/AskMen

How would you navigate this subtle disrespect

My wife and I have been together for 5 years. During that time she’s been part of two different friend groups. The first ended badly — she felt like she was being bullied by two of the girls. After that she found a new group through her best friend, mostly her friends from college, and they welcomed her with open arms.

The problem is that over the last 2-3 years I’ve started to feel like I’m the butt of the joke with this group. I’ve never been rude or disrespectful to any of them — if anything I’ve gone out of my way to treat them well because of how good they’ve been to my wife.

Last night hit a breaking point. I was having a conversation with one of the other guys when I overheard one of the girls mimicking a question I had just asked her husband. I glanced over and she was laughing while the other two girls looked around uncomfortably. Later that same night, sitting in my own home, I heard her mock my laugh. At that point I knew exactly what was going on — and I wasn’t the only one who noticed, because I caught someone else in the group lock eyes with me.

I kept my composure and didn’t make a scene. This morning I told my wife everything and she’s completely on my side — she said if it happens again I should address it.

These people genuinely mean something to my wife and I’m not trying to blow up her friend group. But I’m at the point where I’m not going to keep letting it slide either.

How would you handle this?

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u/Lifeisliveandlearn — 2 days ago