so I was just in the shower. I look down to scrub, and I see my chest. the most strange thing happens next— I physically gag a little. not like, throw up gag, but like a throat closing up gag. it’s awful. I’m a minor, so I cant do anything about it, but i was wondering if anyone else empathized or if I’m just crazy.
okay. does anyone else have parents that are fine with you being agender, and are accepting of you(for example, they let me have agender beads on my converse), but they get uncomfortable whenever you talk about gender?
They won’t lash out or kick me out or anything, but they will change the conversation. My (bisexual!!) mom took me to my first pride parade last year in france, when she thought I was a lesbian. My parents also just.. forget, all the time, that I’m agender. I’ve had to come out to them multiple times too. when they saw I bought a binder with money my grandma just gave me(just to spend and stuff) they got angry and canceled the order.
How do I get a binder? I used leggings to make one in the meantime, and it works fine, but is it safe? Is a real binder safe? My parents say binders can damage my rib cage. im 14 and struggling from severe gender dysphoria that I thought I was done with. its almost summer, and I won’t really have time to hang out with my friends for a month of it(I’m going to Türkiye). someone help me please. I live in Texas too, but I’m in a VERY blue city.
I need some help!! I’ve always had gender dysphoria, but it’s hitting very hard right now. how do I deal with it? I usually used to just ignore it, but I can’t help but feel it now. I wish I wasn’t a minor so I could get top surgery and go on T, until I look masculine enough to pass as androgynous.
ow. my make conure is biting all the time, but my female is being a perfect angel, other than being horny occasionally.
Especially binary trans people. HEAR ME OUT, okay? a lot of cis people never explore their gender at all. but binary trans people know that they were born with something but that’s not what they are and they’re so secure in their gender?? like how? it’s so confusing to me to actually see a difference in the genders