Confused abt a girl
Confused about a girl – very physical but stops before sex
So I (M, early 20s) have been seeing this girl for like over 2 weeks now. We met at a club,went to her place and slept toughter(cuddeling and making out), after that started talking, and have been texting pretty much every day since.
We’ve been out on a date 2 times. First time we went to biljard and then took a long walk along the sea, talked alot, held hands and in the end made out. The second time she came over to my place. We made cocktails, watched movies, and ended up sleeping together.
Here’s what’s confusing me.
She’s VERY physical with me. Like a lot of cuddling, kissing, making out, when we were watching the last movie in my bed already having gone taken a shower and all that . We started spooning she was slightly pushing herself into me, and all that. So naturally I started escalating slowly. While we were watching the movie I started playing with her strings, moved my hand lower and when I got close to her private area she stopped my hand and just held them instead.
After the movie ended i asked her would she like to do sum playful with me and she said" no, not today, sorry "
Some time later in bed we were making out and I tried to escalate more, like touching more and even started pulling her underwear down a bit, but she pulled away(stopped kissing me) then i playfully went down and kissed her 🍑, now she didnt pull away and didnt stop me but also didnt do anything to escalete, she just was there, like wanted to go to sleep. But bc i aint got any expiriance , then i aint got a clue of what to do in that situation, so i pulled back, asked her onemore time " u sure" and she said "yes" and then we just cuddled to sleep. I didn’t push after that.
But she kept, cuddling, stayed close, slept next to me, etc.
Also before we went to my bed to watch the last movie she removed her braw from under her tanktop and she wore strings as underwear.
So now I’m just confused. It feels like she’s clearly into me physically, but then draws a hard line right before sex.
I don’t have much experience so I don’t really know how to read this.
Like:
-is this normal and she just wants to take it slower? bc after all its only our 3rd time toughter although she feels good enough to wear reveling glothing and sleep with me at my place.
-does it mean she’s unsure about me?
-did I do something wrong when escalating?
-should I have done something differently or just keep doing the same and wait?
I’m not trying to be pushy or anything, but it’s just confusing to be doing everything leading up to sex and then stopping there.
Would appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who’ve been in similar situations. Id aslo like to know what women do when they want to clearly have sex, like do they start touchig the manpart or just climb on top of the man or mabye remove their clothes themself or etc.