How would you handle your husband telling you he has a gift for you and then handing you something you bought?‘40M’ and ‘40F’
My husband (married for 5 years) will say “I have a present for you” and hold something behind his back. Once it was an Amazon box. It was something that I ordered for the house. He just picked it up off the porch and pretended it was a gift he ordered for me. Today he handed me a paper bag and said here’s a gift for you and it was some cans and an onion from a grocery order I placed and paid.
I have asked my husband to stop doing this multiple times. When he does this it gets me excited just for a moment and then I realize he’s duped me yet again. I don’t need a gift or ask for one so it’s like he’s constantly pulling the rug out from under me for no reason. He says he doesn’t remember that I’ve asked him to stop doing it and is just trying to be silly. What would you do to make him stop?