u/Leading_Figure_8446

Hi guys
So umm my gf (18F) and I tried doing new stuff and wanted to have sex so umm we tried, we're both virgin but we couldn't cause

1. We couldn't find the hole
2. It was really tight
3. I could only find it when I ate her and when I did it could only fit my pinkie
   So since we really wanna have sex any advice on what to do or try idk I'm new to stuff like this. Also I don't want smth that would make her first time painful pls any tips or advice would be appreciated
   Thanks.