u/Leading-Rip1149

I’m 21F, tall, has a good facial features, has normal BMI (all from dad’s genes) and my mom is 44F, short, white, doesn’t have a good physical features but she’s still pretty ofc, and looks younger than everyone who’s the same age with my mom. I grew up having a supportive parents but when my father died, I feel like my mom died too. After my father died, that’s when things started to get heavy. I remembered this, I have my eyes checked and bought a glasses since my vision is bad, so I wore glasses before but then after weeks of wearing it, I’ve noticed my mom taking a picture of myself and sending it to their group chat with her workmates, and saying that I have four eyes while laughing which makes me cried. Then after that I switched to contact lense because of what my mom did. There was also a time that I’m doing my skin care and then she said that I should stop doing my skin care because it could get my skin worse but I didn’t listen to her and after days I saw her using my skin care, lol. There was also a time that she’s badmouthing me to my family on my mother side and father side. She always makes herself look like the victim and acts like I don’t respect her as a mother but the truth is I’m the victim, she doesn’t treat me as her daughter. When my father died, she had a bf and he is like 27 year old 💀, she even bought him a phone and gave him a money on Christmas. Idk if she wants to be a Sugar Mom 🥲. And this year she told me that she has a co-worker who’s the same age as me (21 years old) and my mom said that the “co-worker” has a crush on her while smiling. 😭