Just advice....
I am having some trouble with my mom again.
I'm coming into her home and shes very lethargic... Not like sickly like... Today kinda showed me. I came in and she had spilled an entire bottle of muscle relaxers, on a sticky floor where she had just spilled her drink...
This is an everyday thing...
I don't believe she takes her medication properly but I'm not around to see her take it. I work, and sometimes before, or after work ,then on the weekends I'm here Saturday....
She's had issues in the past with overdoing it with the pain meds, and it pushed me out of her life.
She left the nursing home to "Prove to herself she can do it" but I'm not sure anymore. I don't want to keep having the conversation with her.
I'm thinking of moving no matter what with starting my new job. I'm going into debt driving back and forth across town, or helping her help me, and it's a list of stuff it's a lot... However I just don't see how this is healthy anymore.
She's using a 2x and 2 3x briefs at a time and still wetting through them excessively on the regular though layers of the paper pads and two cloth pads... She lives in an apartment with paid laundry and never has money for it she is always over spending on stupid shit... I wish she had a state payee but idk if that's a thing. Its so infuriating.
Her caregiver is helpful, but she's also young and lazy and the company is out of a town miles away and barely have anyone out here and when I talk about changing everything goes crazy caca insano...
But I do think she is over taking her medicine, or can't remember. It's just... Didn't mean to go on and on... I'm just very very exhausted.