AIO to my sister demanding a sense of urgency from me?
My sister (12F) and me (17M) repeatedly get into arguments where she demands I di thing right there right then. When I tell her I will do it and tackle it when I do so, she enters a nitpicking rage and fit where she will intervene in ant way she can to force me to do the chore or task.
Recently she told me that since nobody else is doing the dishes, I am. I didn't get the option to plea against it due to the fact our mother has a system of operation and this little devil repeatedly alters the logs to make it seem that it's always not her turn.
Going so far as to washing 2 forks and saying she did them.
Just recently though, she ended up demanding me to do them and going as far as disconnecting the internet and stealing my phone hiding it outside to make me do them. I told her I'll do then when I get to it. But she demands me to do them now. Even as I deny for me to do them immediately at her call as she barks orders.
She has begun to scream slurrs and curse words at me and phrases such as "You're so lazy, no wonder you had 2 girlfriend who left you and you settled for a long distance because It doesn't need much work. You worthless excuse for a human." This out of all the things she said is perhaps the kindest thing she has ever told me.
At the time of this post she is now isolating herself telling me I'm disrespectful towards her for arguing against her. She told me before she left to Isolate "I deserve to be treated with the respect I rightfully deserve." Now she is listening to Taylor Swift and Olivia Rodrigo.
Am I over reacting or is this just nitpicky.
I have dealt with it in just doing the dishes because it made her stop demanding and screaming at me every 5 minutes stop.