Me 24/F and 24/M have broken up. It’s very fresh but I just want perspective from other people on attraction.
We were together for 2 years.
So in this scenario I’ve always found my partner to be cute and adorable and as the relationship progressed I became more emotionally invested.
He’s a lovely boy, honestly like we didn’t really argue and if we did, it would be external factors causing that.
I think sometimes i struggled with the attraction side but at the same time there’s many times id sit there and be like yup he’s hot.
If I’m being frankly honest, his weight has kind of put me off. Again it’s mainly from waist down. I don’t mind a bit of stomach.
He goes gym frequently and complains about not losing enough weight so it’s not something I’d ever categorically call out. Wouldn’t want someone pointing that out and so why would I. The reason I mention this is because it affects the way clothes look on him and in line with that affects my physical attraction towards him.
I geuss what I’m asking is are we better off apart and can attraction be fleeting?
Apart from that the relationship was great.. I mean yeah he cringes me out sometimes but I’m sure I cringe him out too at times ( although he never admits it)