My girlfriend takes no accountability is this normal?
My (37m) long time girlfriend (30f) has a long standing history of being unable to be wrong or to blame for anything.
Earlier this year, her long time male gay friend (27m) of around 15 years, who constantly behaves toxic, impersonated me from an unknown phone number for a month. He did this by iMessage, and convinced my girlfriend it was me.
I found out because while she and I were miss conversation she said "this is you right?!" I replied no and she said "I don't believe you!"
Fast track to now, I gently tried to bring it up. She still believes it was me and I'm lying to her!
My girlfriend has a narcissism issue and whenever something like this happens she withdraws just enough, like clockwork I'm blocked on iMessage but still added everywhere else and she won't answer my calls. I know exactly what's next, I send her Uber eats for dinner, that opens the door for her return and she's back within 12 hours.
Is this normal? I've been with this woman for 5 years and she's unable to take accountability for anything. Her toxic gay friend knows he can get away with anything and she'll never protect us.
I need advice on how to fix this from happening all the time.