I feel like women want a relationship with me and full on commitment...but they never want a fling or something 'unserious' like they do with other guys?
This may seem like a strange insecurity...but it's nonetheless one that I have. I've worked hard on myself up until now. I have a good paying job, I think I'm reasonably good looking and I'm a pretty chill kinda guy who can have a laugh. However, I can't help but feel like every time I meet a girl that I'm interested in, they feel the need to get to know me really REALLY well before getting intimate from a physical standpoint. I didn't mind this at first, but then when the inevitable conversation of ex partners, situantionships etc comes up I quickly learn that the guys before me were able to essentially sleep with said girl way sooner then me...I guess the advice I want is, why is this? I'm not necessarily desperate for sex but I'm bothered that girls always consider me a long term option which is flattering but they seem to want to make me wait and have me take them out and invest a whole bunch of time when the men before me got physical intimacy with half the effort.
Disclaimer: I'm not a women hater and the red pill community is something I do not associate with nor do I feel like I'm entitled to sex. Internet community...please be nice 😅