I f26 and my boyfriend M26 have been together for 2 years I wasn’t snooping but when I went to the bathroom there was hair gel that wasn’t mine in there I didn’t say nothing about it because hair products aren’t that big of a deal the real problem was I was cleaning up a mess I made by his dresser and on the floor there was a bp and I know for a fact it isn’t mine. I was upset but knew if I would have said something it would have been a big fight but maybe it should be because I don’t think there’s any excuse when the picture was basically painted infront of me so my question is should I just call it quits and leave without a word because the day I found that I went home and when I came back over cause I needed to drop something off it was gone I’m jus scared to get STDs so advice on how I should go about this
Edit :I’m heading to bed soon so my plan is just to simply find the plug place it on his bed and then block him to answer a few things
“This man does not appreciate that type of play done to him”
“I want to leave without talking about it because I don’t need to hear excuses”
“All toys purchased we have talked about before buying and this one wasn’t in a package so it was definitely used”
“I’m not a fan of being spammed called which I know that will happen”
“This whole thing is hard for me not even because of finding it but because I know it’s used and we don’t use condoms so all I’m thinking about is he doesn’t have any here so he definitely was going in without a condom and that is my biggest fear I don’t want a incurable std well any of them but I’m scared mostly of the ones that stick with you for life”