AIO my partner broke a rule in our relationship
It might sound stupid to some but I need some outside advice.
I can't have sex anymore, it hurts and I end up being in a lot of pain afterwards. I'd go to the hospital but they just keep telling me nothing is wrong. So I kinda gave up in that department lol..
It's been half a year since we did it and I've been feeling bad because I know how it is for some people and how much it's a deal breaker for some. I really love this guy so I don't mind.
Soo a few weeks ago, I told my partner he can sleep with other people because I haven't been able to perform like I used to.
I gave him some rules though, I thought it would be nice just to keep things peaceful.
To check their records (make sure they have no STDs, y'know).
It cannot be a previous romantic partner.
It cannot be people you used to / or are currently working with. Because I would feel like there was something prior to me agreeing to this.
And to be honest with me. I'm a nosy person and I want to hear about his encounters.
After one day he immediately found someone. I found it odd but like he's attractive, so I didn't think much of it.
But when I was asking about her, he was evading some of my questions. Most questions he answered normally. But when I asked where he met her he dodged the question.
Just yesterday, he just told me that she was a co worker and he went with her because he knew he could talk to her in that way and that she was easy.
I got angry because he immediately broke two rules I had. He told me he had ended it off with her and that he blocked her. I haven't said anything to him today but I feel like if he had told me earlier this would've been a different story.
Am I overreacting? Or should I lie in the bed I made for myself. I dunno I feel like an idiot.