u/Lavender_Fever

So I ordered my first Elomi bra and it almost fit perfectly except the wire was hurting me so bad, pressing into upper stomach. (I’m a big ish girly) so I returned it and when I emailed the company they asked for my measurements and they told me I should try US 44H / UK 44FF but my sizing chart size is US 42J/K / UK 42GG/H. Now I think I need a bigger band size or maybe a different style but I’m scared of getting the cup size they recommend they also recommend to get a wireless bra but I feel like I don’t get enough support with wireless bras :( I really need a bra that fits.