I don't know how I feel about my previous relationship.
We had regular sex for our first 3 years, even him knowing I was aesexual and I was doing it for his pleasure / my kinks and ours. After a while we moved in together and he didn't want to be romantic anymore or share beds. He said he still loved me and wanted to hold a lease together however that fell apart when he wanted to removed me with his roommate on the lease. This was 6 months ago and I've gone somewhere else with another job and feel heart. I want to reconnect with him but don't know how, should I or is it just painful?