My mom threatened with killing herself after i set some boundaries
I posted the original story in r/aitah and someone there suggested this subreddit. Just looking to vent mostly but i will appreciate any tips on how to navigate this situation as well as stories if you've had to deal with something similar.
Last thursday my mom said her and my dad would be in the area and that they were going to pass by. i told them no. I wanted to spend alone time with my husband and son and did not want any visitors. I was supposed to go visit today anyways and had already seen them last tuesday.
They showed up to my house unnanounced anyways and just walked in my house after just knocking once and no answer. i got so mad i kicked them out and told them they needed to respect my boundarie to which they said they did not need permission to come to their daughter's house.
We have not spoken since because i am still very mad and they do not want to apologize or recognize that what they did was terribly wrong.
She called my MIL yesterday (they are fairly close and knew each other before i met my husband) sobbing saying that i kicked her out, that i do not love her and that she wanted to kill herself, to take care of their grandson well after she is gone.
I have speculated that she has some undiagnosed condition but this solidified it to me. I know she is not well. She told MIL that she did nothing wrong even after MIL told her that was not ok and that she should have called first or just accepted my no from the beginning.
Anybody experienced something like this in the past? what should i do in this situation?