u/Latter_Honey1730

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What to do if they stop talking?

Me and my bf have been friends since December and dating for 2 months now. He came to visit me and that’s when we made it official and i visited him 2 weeks ago. Things have been kinda more difficult since right before I visited, he has been dealing with a lot of stress from work and just kinda goals he has for his financials and stuff. We were talking on Wednesday the 6th and it carried over into Thursday, around 5 am we got into an argument I asked him to clarify something and he just kinda refused but it was important to me that u had clarity on what he meant. He got mad the last text he sent me he was pissed off and he was gonna leave it off there before he did something stupid. He said some other nicer things in that but at the time just him leaving right after triggered me a bit so we called for a few minutes and I ended up hanging up cause it was kinda like talking to a brick wall. I ended up calling him a bunch and texting and freaking out over everything. I’ve sent him many like texts apologizing for that and how I’d just like to break the silence and everything. I gave him one final voice message on discord and a text message just saying I’ll give him space and I’d like to work things out and that I loved him. It’s been about 4 hours since then and I just can’t help spiraling over and over again. I texted his friends and one responded he was nice and said like he would let me know if anything happened so did his gf say that too. The one who I knew is a bit closer to him hasn’t responded to me at all either and I’m kinda worried he knows something the others don’t. Either way I just don’t know what to do, I wanna actually give him space and stop messaging but my anxiety is through the roof and I don’t know how to cope tbh with all of this. Is there any advice people may have or honestly some kind but honest words about what I should do? I know that breaking up is just an option and tbh I just wanna talk before we do that. I do think if he doesn’t text me by Sunday the 10th ima assume he is done. Again though I just don’t know what to do.

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u/Latter_Honey1730 — 6 days ago