How do i know if he’s the one?
So, I have recently come into faith (I have always believed but now became more active). I have some questions about dating for my Christian sisters (or brothers, I guess anyone who is/has been in the same boat as me). I have a hard time saying this so be kind to me! Physical aspect of the relationship is very important to me. Not in a lustful way, for me it’s such a vulnerable moment and a way to bond on a higher level. I don’t want to show that side to anyone except my future partner, and I want to be sure there is chemistry and I feel safe and wanted.
I feel like it’s a big taboo to talk about this stuff and I feel so ashamed of even thinking about it, but I know I would feel horrible in a relationship where that is missing. I don’t think I could get married like that. I would grieve that because there would always be a part of me no one could see, a part that could never fully connect. I feel like the bond between me and my future partner would always be missing something, like I could never be truly one with them or trust them with my whole heart, mind, body, and soul.
So my question is, how do I know this person would be compatible with me? I don’t want to do it before I know we’re getting married, but how would I know before doing it? Can I just ask or is it… weird or wrong? Is it normal to talk about that stuff while getting to know each other?
Thank you for reading this through! May God bless you and bathe you in his glory🤍