u/LastCoat8099

I’m no where near getting married any time soon and I’m not even dating anyone at the moment. However recently I’ve had the hypothetical question in my head of what if I’m asexual? I obviously wouldn’t know until I’m married but by then it would be too late? I am kind of scared of sex, for many reasons, I can’t even put a tampon in! (sorry if that’s tmi) What would happen if I am the reason for a sexless marriage? I feel like even if we (hypothetical spouse and I)?talked about it before the wedding things could always change for either of us and to my understanding you can never be fully ready. I can’t tell if I am ace or if it’s just fear mixed with purity culture and no one to ask about sex with in real life. I do get turned on by things, I think? My parents never even gave me the talk, I figured out parts of it through watching the Office when I was 12 and then more and more by being in middle school lol. Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated!