Me and my bf are Both subs? Can this even work out?
(I dont use Reddit a lot and I am Inside where to ask this sorry if it doesnt suit)
I don’t know how to act. I have my first serious boyfriend and we didn’t do anything more than kissing untill now but I can see from his behaviour that he is sub.
When cuddeling he always wants to be the little spoon but I hate it that way, if we have a neutral cuddle Position or he is Like the Big spoon it feels good and if hes the little spoon I feel just weird. Also he is Like Making jokes about Face sitting and Calling me mommy which I Both really find weird and I am so dry thinking about us in bed where I would have to be dominant, I can be a Little Bit if he also is and I can be sub but I am uncertain how it is supposed to work if he is a sub,
I am not even confident enough to be dominant and moreover I don’t think its attractive in bed for me. In normal life I like that he isnt „tough“ ego high Type that’s usually accosiated with being dominant… is there any way this could even work out? Should I Change for him? I really like him in every other way…