Listen this is so crazy. I [31] Female have been with my husband [39] male for 8 years, married for 5. It all started with 2 weird phone calls on Monday morning around 4:15am he didn’t answer the first one but the second call he gets up goes to living room presses silent then comes back to bed, and says “I think it’s a team member.”
Okay weird but whatever. I can’t go back to sleep so I just decide to get up and start my day. I make coffee, start the shower but something just isn’t sitting right with me. So I go upstairs and get his iPad which is synced to his phone to see who it was. Turns out the iPad hasn’t been synced in 6 weeks. Okay weird again but I just refresh and it syncs. No missed calls since Saturday. Ummmm ????
Now I’m getting frustrated. I head back downstairs and grab his Apple Watch, (he’s too much of a light sleeper to get the phone). I pull up calls again, nothing since Saturday. I go to the notifications tab and start scrolling and that’s where I see it transfer to Apple Card, then Apple Card payment of $$ to ndai.cc @1:11am. He was definitely home upstairs playing on his Xbox. I hear him rustling so I put it down and go into the bathroom. I do a google search and good old Reddit and google Gemini, ndai.cc is a platform where you can PAY an Ai bot to be your girlfriend or sexy chat.
At this point I’m chuckling because honestly that’s weird as hell. And this isn’t the first time he’s been Messing around with Ai. A Couple of years ago he had some topless ai girls saved to his phone… Then he wakes up comes into the bathroom and says “oh I think that team member who was calling was drunk”. I just shake my head and say “that’s weird”
I haven’t confronted him. Because I’m still trying to put it all together. I can’t see how long he’s been paying for sexy Ai chats because it’s on his credit card. And I’m still trying to process who the heck called and why? Should I be upset? Should I continue to investigate or is ignorance bliss? HeLP!