u/Lanky-Principle-8407

I’m 8 days post partum and my new baby is entirely different to my first. She will sleep amazingly including long stretches in a cot. My first would never. I also chose to formula feed so I know it’s what needs to happen for safety. My first I co slept because she literally wouldn’t sleep without me.

But I’m just deep in my baby blues and I feel so disconnected from her. I’m scared I’m giving her container baby syndrome. When she doesn’t need me I feel like we’re less connected and I’m not going to have that same loving bond as my first. I’m having a really hard time emotionally post partum.