College Friendships Post Grad
I just graduated today and am seeing now the true colors of some of my “friends” I’ve had all of college. I was the mom of our group and literally cooked and fed everyone all the time (my choice I know) but I was the only one who graduated they are all a year below me.. it’s summer now and most of them are home or internship and I noticed as soon as I graduated , it was like within hours , they aren’t interested in anything I had to say. I invested so much into these friendships and I know they are my friends and I shouldn’t expect anything in return but I really feel used and left out alone to dry :(
I have so many regrets and truly hate some of these girls now. I am seeing how mean they are - I knew before but I wanted to keep peace in our group. Now I’m moving home with my mom for 6 months and I’m sad to be leaving these friends because I made my life revolve around them.. I was just never a priority for them. I’m sad and I have no friends in my hometown. Has anyone else experienced this with their friends from college? Graduation also sucked bc none of my friends graduated with me lol 😀
High school mindset really never goes away - I still think I have some of it.