Hi. So I just got dumped today.. we be fighting about money and it been hard bc we work the same jobs (shopping and delivery groceries) and we only had one car for past 5 months. It hard to do this together plus we have own way of doing things when we work. He put all the bills in his name tho so since having one car I been at home I been trying to Esty but it slow at first for sales. We fought about it all January same issue.. I told him if he has he own car.. (I own the car we have) it might work out better. Since worker together is a no go. Now jump to April he made all the bills due all on two different days in one week. He told me in the past to not worry about the bills. Even tho in January I told him to put half bills in my name. Didn’t happen. Two days ago he gotten sick so I went out to work for the day and I made pretty good haul of 200$ for the day and I got home and he just screams at me how they not enough and I ask why? It was because the water bill was 400 dollars plus we had to paid rent 1000 and plus my tax payment 200 all on Monday. So I went back out and made 70$ bc well the store all closed for the night. Then yesterday he makes the plans that I be the one who works and pay for the bill this coming Friday, all three come to about 400. I was so worried this morning about me coming home and him screaming at me about the again they I brought it up this morning and he started screaming again and he pack up and his mom came and pick him up mind you i only have 37$ in my account soo and now idk how im going to pay for anything for may he legitimately dumped everything on me
His mom is offering to pay the bills on Friday to finish up April
My mom thinks he plan this out tbh plus he call me lazy even tho he one who took my car to use for work.
I been with him for 10 years it was hard 10 years but I miss him. Sorry if my English is bad I’m upset
I just don’t know if take my loss let go or keep fighting and hope maybe he change his mind. I don’t have friends or family in my area so idk if it worth staying in the house I’m in or the town even. It be kinda hard especially with memories of places we used to enjoy together. TBH I don’t know if I be able to ever date anyone else after this. Plus it been only 1 day
This is my first breakup also, I never been in relationship before him. He does lack communication and maybe he bipolar which is not healthy for me bc I sit with my feelings for days. I’m still upset about few days ago while he was fine yesterday and he seem really annoyed that I wasn’t able to move on from it quickly. Couple days ago It just came out of nowhere. Would him getting his own car help fix the problem or even home gettting a different job that doesn’t involve car? I’m one who start doing shipt first plus i bought a new car to do shipt in. He did have my old car for while before it die