AITBF for scaring my (34f) boyfriend (40m) in the bathtub
My boyfriend of almost 4 years was taking a bath with our son of almost 2 years. He asked me to get our kid out and dried off. I did so and he did something cute in the process. I went back to the bathroom to tell him what our son did, but my boyfriend was totally underwater rinsing his hair. I saw an opportunity and leaned in close to surprise him. When he came out of the water and wiped his eyes he screamed "F*ck you psycho c*unt" in my face. I just sat there for a minute unsure how to react to the situation and decided to just walk away after picking my jaw up off the floor. I've scared him before by accident, but he's never reacted like this. After his bath he apologized for how he reacted, but then followed up with something along the lines of "but I'll never close my eyes around you again" and then about 10 minutes later brought in two ~$60 items I purchased for him as a gift about 4 and 6 months ago and said "if we break up are you going to say I stole these?" which I'm entirely unsure where that even came from because the only thing I've ever accused him of was lying. I just sat there looking at my phone after glancing up because I'm still so fing shocked at whatever tf just happened. So reddit, am I the buttface?