u/L0URRAINE

hi ! so I have a question for you guys.
i am trying to manifest my sp and one thing I’ve been doing is creating scenarios in my head, so when I come home from work, i talk to “him” in the car (out loud, he just isn’t here physically). I have this fake conversation, a conversation that we would have if we were together.
also, i just always create scenarios, for example when i go to bed i imagine that im cuddling up in his arms, when i stand or do anything basically I imagine that he is behind me and telling me he loves me.
basically, i always act like he’s my boyfriend, or that we live or do things together as a couple.

is that a good way to manifest ? if so, how can I really get into the feeling that it is real and coming to me (i mean, i am aware that he isn’t there physically).
i trust manifestation, but I’ve never heard of this technique and i’m scared that i am just being too obsessive over it.
do you have any advice ?

thanks !

Hello everyone!
I need your advice on my situation, I’ll try to explain best I can.

I met this guy at school last term and we kept having eye contacts (big, intense ones) almost everyday. I kept seeing him at school and at the end of the term, he finally talked to me.
He came, presented himself and said he wanted to see who was behind the beautiful eyes he kept seeing. Anyways, we talked that night and realized we had a bigger age gap than we thought (he just turned 26 and i’m 20). We had a little shock, but whatever.
We connect on a deep level, we match so so well it’s juste incredibly nice to be with him.
Couple days after, he told me the age was actually bothering him and that he wouldn’t move to the next step until he figured it out.
Winter break happened and we almost didn’t talk for 4 weeks. He told me he was going to Mexico for 3 weeks and was going to come back 3 days after the term started.

Then things went sideways : we went to dinner and he basically told me he did not want a relationship, he wasn’t ready and had nothing to give for now, but he liked me and wanted to be friends.
Not event a day later he was already changing his mind.
I’ll keep it short, for about 3 months, he came back and forth on his decision. Every time he told me he didn’t want anything, I never insisted I was like oh well, too bad and moved on and he would just come back almost immediately, which was frustrating.
Couple weeks ago, we finally kissed (and a little more lol). I told him he had to make up his mind, that if it was no it was really okay, but that he couldn’t just continue to always change his mind.
He told me that he got his heart broken and was still recovering (that’s important).
A week after that, we went to a bar, he kissed me, we went back to his place and slept together. Since then, I started manifesting like hard. I did the love letter method, constantly imagining conversations where he would tell me he loved me, trying to live just as if we were already together, etc. To be fair, it worked a bit (because of what he told me after).

Yesterday, I realized I am actually totally in love with this guy. We went to his apartment and at one point, we were cuddling and kissing.
Then he said he like wanted to talk since we didn’t really have a chance to talk about last time.
He told me it really opened his mind, that he woke up feeling really good, that he missed having a connection with someone and realized that he actually wanted to commit to something. (that’s what changed with the manifesting)

Thing is : not with me lol.
I asked what he wanted from our relationship since his intentions changed, he said like an amicable relationship, which sucks.
He also told me how much he appreciated me, how wonderful I am, that he truly felt like himself with me etc.
I was crushed inside but couldn’t tell him loll.
I cried my eyes out when I went home, I really like that guy.
I know we have something special.

I’m changing school next year, so we still have about a month before school ends. I really don’t want to end the relationship when summer comes.
Also, I think he doesn’t want to commit to me because of our age gap, which totally sucks.

Now I don’t know how and what to manifest. I want HIM, I want him to commit to me in a romantic relationship, I want him to love me, to forget about the girl that broke is heart couple months ago.
What can I do ? How can I manifest him to be mine completely, to commit to me, love me, etc. ?
Do you have any techniques, tips our just about anything that can help me achieve this goal ?

Thanks so much for your help.