I (27M) am single and have never really dated in a serious relationship. Had a 6 month thing but we were long distance and was not really a relationship and felt like a chore. Anyway, been on multiple dating apps for so long, but no matches. And i see douches getting matches left and right.
I guess being introvert and non-witty doesn't get you matches. I mean if i was so outgoing why would i be on dating apps in the first place?? I am not awkward talking to females (before anyone says this). I guess i am too respectful of them and this generation girls doesn't want that. I am an old school romantic and believer of soul mates coz i have seen that in my family, but i guess this is not true anymore.
The scene in arranged marriage setup is the same. Thus, i have full belief that i am going to die single and alone.