u/KxY_official

Alr so I'm have this kinda crush i call it a .5 crush and we're kinda friends too. He's kinda freaky and told me I was his .5 crush too after I asked. We have each others snap and he's kinda freaky asking what freaky stuff would we do if we were dating, he would maybe date me sometime in the year, shit like that. I'm not really surprised by the questions bc when I say no he respects the answers and boys going through puberty do shit like that from what I've heard. Anyways, a few days later, I just kinda felt like he's kinda playing with my feelings bc he asks me freaky questions and I'm not exactly his 1 crush (that's what we call it, i know his 1 crush). So my friend got Snapchat recently and was added to the grade 7 gc. Bc I had this strange feeling of what if I'm not the only one he asks those things? He might be playing with my feelings bc of his reputation and personality. he had asked me if i liked hugging him bc i hugged him in school and i asked if i should stop hugging him and he said no. I told my friend that he's kinda freaky and she said yeah he sent her not so kid friendly text so my suspicions were high that he was playing with me. Long story short, he wasn't and all he texted her was bum and sent dumb emojis (which he does to everyone), but I kinda showed her some screenshot texts with me and him texting and she said ew and she's worried for me bc of the freaky shit. I didn't show her everything shit I showed her just the beginning and told her not to tell anyone bc he didn't want me to share those text. I trust her to not tell anyone or forget about it bc she didn't bring it up anymore, but I feel bad bc I sent him a whole ass paragraph saying idk if I can do this shit anymore bc I feel like he's playing with my feelings and I saw that he read it before school, bc when I got to school and I ignored him bc he kept annoying me the day before, he kept asking why I'm so pressed and if it was bc he left me on delivered and he looked kinda sad after he was kinda chasing me calline my name and i didn't answer. I also feel like I shouldn't have shared those screenshots with my friend bc he wasn't playing with other girls. Idk what to do i might just hug him and tell him I wasn't mad I was just annoyed bc he always flicks me, but idk advice would be appreciated.

Alr so I'm have this kinda crush i call it a .5 crush and we're kinda friends too. He's kinda freaky and told me I was his .5 crush too after I asked. We have each others snap and he's kinda freaky asking what freaky stuff would we do if we were dating, shit like that. I'm not really surprised by the questions bc when I say no he respects the answers and boys going through puberty do shit like that from what I've heard. Anyways, a few days later, I just kinda felt like he's kinda playing with my feelings bc he asks me freaky questions and I'm not exactly his 1 crush (that's what we call it, i know his 1 crush). So my friend got Snapchat recently and was added to the grade 7 gc. Bc I had this strange feeling of what if I'm not the only one he asks those things? He might be playing with my feelings bc of his reputation and personality. he had asked me if i liked hugging him bc i hugged him in school and i asked if i should stop hugging him and he said no. I told my friend that he's kinda freaky and she said yeah he sent her not so kid friendly text so my suspicions were high that he was playing with me. Long story short, he wasn't and all he texted her was bum and sent dumb emojis (which he does to everyone), but I kinda showed her some screenshot texts with me and him texting and she said ew and she's worried for me bc of the freaky shit. I didn't show her everything shit I showed her just the beginning and told her not to tell anyone bc he didn't want me to share those text. I trust her to not tell anyone or forget about it bc she didn't bring it up anymore, but I feel bad bc I sent him a whole ass paragraph saying idk if I can do this shit anymore bc I feel like he's playing with my feelings and I saw that he read it before school, bc when I got to school and I ignored him bc he kept annoying me the day before, he kept asking why I'm so pressed and if it was bc he left me on delivered and he looked kinda sad after he was kinda chasing me calline my name and i didn't answer. I also feel like I shouldn't have shared those screenshots with my friend bc he wasn't playing with other girls. Idk what to do i might just hug him and tell him I wasn't mad I was just annoyed bc he always flicks me, but idk advice would be appreciated.

This might be dumb considering I'm 13, but I wanna stop liking a boy in my grade. I just think he ain't the best person out there bc he's kinda popular and is the type to like to tease girls ig. Last grade I didn't like him at all bc he was a rude person which made me not wanna approach him, but now in this grade he keeps teasing me and would flick my should so many8ng times to the point I slapped him hard and usually the person would cry and stop, but nope he just stared for a second and went back to doing the same shit. He still does it and I try to control myself more from retaliating even though he doesn't tell on me, I just wanna control myself more. He does do it less now and does step on my feet anymore. We only started talking bc he added me on snap and he always used to text first then one day he was asking me kinda freakish questions that aren't that bad bc I was okay answering them. He also asked if I would date him and i said yeah but right now nope bc of his attitude. He knows he's my crush bc he asked and I told him and I usually tell my crush if I like them for about a month. I asked back if he would date me and he said later in the year which I think he's lying for some reasons. During the weekend, a girl in my grade texted me asking if I got discord bc the boy wanted to talk to me and I gave her my discord, but didn't receive any sort of friend request. In school, I told him that someone said you wanted to ask me something and he said he would tell me through text, but I was impatient and asked him to tell me during recess. All he asked me was why was I hugging him on friday and I asked back do u want me to stop hugging me and he asked back do u wanna stop and I asked again if he wants me to stop hugging him and he said not really and I said exactly. (I didn't only hug him i hugged his other friend first bc he was crying then his friend didn't want a hug anymore and I hugged him instead and always asked first). I also gave him half my coke because i couldn't finish it and he told me thank you and drank it. Idk i'm usually comfortable with boys and I see most of them as just friends. He still plays with other girls and that too but he's usually the one who flicks my should then I grab his collar and he says calm down or when he's walking in grab his hoodie to stop him and he stops. I joke about sharing the freakish chats sometimes and he just smiles and his friends ask for it and I say if he agrees I will bc I'm not that type of person.

I just feel like I shouldn't like someone like him, I had a crush on this guy friend who I also told sometime after liking him, but he didn't like me and my feelings faded kinda quick but now I see him as more like a brother bc I got 3 brothers and he acts like one of them. Idk I don't know if I can trust someone like him😭.

This might be dumb considering I'm 13, but I wanna stop liking a boy in my grade. I just think he ain't the best person out there bc he's kinda popular and is the type to like to tease girls ig. Last grade I didn't like him at all bc he was a rude person which made me not wanna approach him, but now in this grade he keeps teasing me and would flick my should so many8ng times to the point I slapped him hard and usually the person would cry and stop, but nope he just stared for a second and went back to doing the same shit. He still does it and I try to control myself more from retaliating even though he doesn't tell on me, I just wanna control myself more. He does do it less now and does step on my feet anymore. We only started talking bc he added me on snap and he always used to text first then one day he was asking me kinda freakish questions that aren't that bad bc I was okay answering them. He also asked if I would date him and i said yeah but right now nope bc of his attitude. He knows he's my crush bc he asked and I told him and I usually tell my crush if I like them for about a month. I asked back if he would date me and he said later in the year which I think he's lying for some reasons. During the weekend, a girl in my grade texted me asking if I got discord bc the boy wanted to talk to me and I gave her my discord, but didn't receive any sort of friend request. In school, I told him that someone said you wanted to ask me something and he said he would tell me through text, but I was impatient and asked him to tell me during recess. All he asked me was why was I hugging him on friday and I asked back do u want me to stop hugging me and he asked back do u wanna stop and I asked again if he wants me to stop hugging him and he said not really and I said exactly. (I didn't only hug him i hugged his other friend first bc he was crying then his friend didn't want a hug anymore and I hugged him instead and always asked first). Idk i'm usually comfortable with boys and I see most of them as just friends. He still plays with other girls and that too but he's usually the one who flicks my should then I grab his collar and he says calm down or when he's walking in grab his hoodie to stop him and he stops. I joke about sharing the freakish chats sometimes and he just smiles and his friends ask for it and I say if he agrees I will bc I'm not that type of person.

I just feel like I shouldn't like someone like him, I had a crush on this guy friend who I also told sometime after liking him, but he didn't like me and my feelings faded kinda quick but now I see him as more like a brother bc I got 3 brothers and he acts like one of them. Idk I don't know if I can trust someone like him😭.

This might be dumb considering I'm 13, but I wanna stop liking a boy in my grade. I just think he ain't the best person out there bc he's kinda popular and is the type to like to tease girls ig. Last grade I didn't like him at all bc he was a rude person which made me not wanna approach him, but now in this grade he keeps teasing me and would flick my should so many8ng times to the point I slapped him hard and usually the person would cry and stop, but nope he just stared for a second and went back to doing the same shit. He still does it and I try to control myself more from retaliating even though he doesn't tell on me, I just wanna control myself more. He does do it less now and does step on my feet anymore. We only started talking bc he added me on snap and he always used to text first then one day he was asking me kinda freakish questions that aren't that bad bc I was okay answering them. He also asked if I would date him and i said yeah but right now nope bc of his attitude. He knows he's my crush bc he asked and I told him and I usually tell my crush if I like them for about a month. I asked back if he would date me and he said later in the year which I think he's lying for some reasons. During the weekend, a girl in my grade texted me asking if I got discord bc the boy wanted to talk to me and I gave her my discord, but didn't receive any sort of friend request. In school, I told him that someone said you wanted to ask me something and he said he would tell me through text, but I was impatient and asked him to tell me during recess. All he asked me was why was I hugging him on friday and I asked back do u want me to stop hugging me and he asked back do u wanna stop and I asked again if he wants me to stop hugging him and he said not really and I said exactly. (I didn't only hug him i hugged his other friend first bc he was crying then his friend didn't want a hug anymore and I hugged him instead and always asked first). Idk i'm usually comfortable with boys and I see most of them as just friends. He still plays with other girls and that too but he's usually the one who flicks my should then I grab his collar and he says calm down or when he's walking in grab his hoodie to stop him and he stops. I joke about sharing the freakish chats sometimes and he just smiles and his friends ask for it and I say if he agrees I will bc I'm not that type of person.

I just feel like I shouldn't like someone like him, I had a crush on this guy friend who I also told sometime after liking him, but he didn't like me and my feelings faded kinda quick but now I see him as more like a brother bc I got 3 brothers and he acts like one of them. Idk I don't know if I can trust someone like him😭.

(13F) i really wanna make money for myself bc my parents are shitty and don't want me to save up for myself. My dad at first told me whatever I sold on marketplace I could keep the money but once I actually sold, he took the money saying he's trying to teach me how to do business, but obviously I know he just wants the money for himself. I don't think i can do jobs like babysitting bc my parents don't let me go out except it's the park so maybe I could lie but idk. I have a bank account and it's not linked to my parents bc I didn't want it to be. So are there anyways I can make money online? I wanna start art commissions bc I can draw, but any suggestions will be appreciated.

There's this boy in my grade who used to always

annoy me in person by flicking my shoulder, stepping on my shoes, and stuff like that, even though I told him to stop multiple times and even hit him but he didn't. We didn't really talk before, but recently we started texting on Snapchat. He kept asking about my crush, so I told him I have a "main crush" and a ".5," and he's my .5. When I asked him his, he said it was me, but later my guy friend said he said he was joking. As we started texting more, he randomly asked if I was freaky, which I thought was weird, but I answered anyway since I'm pretty open. On my birthday, he posted on his story happy birthday bum and when I put it on my story saying he doesn't deserve a thx. He kept asking me to say thank you.

Later, he started asking more personal questions, like if I would date him and what I'd do if we did. Then he asked where I'd be okay with him touching me, including places like my butt and chest, but i still answered no to butt and chest but okay with stomachbut he can'ttouch me. He said he wouldn't actually touch me and didn't know why he was asking, but it still felt weird. He did stop hitting me after we told each other we were out .5's he just makes dumb jokes and when I joke back he just says I guess.

Now I'm confused about his intentions and feel like I might have shared too much. I'm not sure if he actually likes me or is just being weird and physical.

So this might be such a weird rant.

Anyways, there's this boy in my grade that constantly teases me by flicking my shoulder, stepping on my shoe and just annoying shit like that and I've told him stop multiple times, I even slapped him really hard by accident when I was mad telling him to stop but he doesn't. So I he had added me on snap a few months ago and we didn't really text, it was recently we started texting. We gonna call him U.

U really wanted to know my crush and I did have a main crush then but not anymore bc my before crush who's my friend told me he had a crush on someone else in another school and he knew I had a crush on him.bv I told him long ago, so my feeling kinda faded and I just like him a little. So I do this thing where I have a 1 crush and a .5 and U is my .5 and I told him on snap bc he wanted to know my .5 and he just said oo and I asked him about his .5 is and he said it was me. I have this other guy friend who I trust with some of my crush secrets that we gonna call M. He told me that U said he was lying but he was smiling while saying it. We began to chat more on snap, until he then asked me randomly if I was freaky. I answer with an in between bc most teens are freaky or dirty minded. It was weird but I'm a pretty open person about shit so I didn't mind that much. I told M about it and he said he didn't know that he usually acts nonchalant with them and maybe he's possessed. On my birthday, he puts it on his story happy birthday to you bum and I put in on my story saying u don't deserve a thx and he texts me begging me to say thx bc I said thx to everyone else.

Today he asked again and I asked him and he said from a scale of 1 to 10 he's a 4 and I said I'm probably a 7 or 8. Anyways, he then asks stuff like if I would date him and I'm like what kind of question is that and he said a question then said but hypothetically would i date him and i ask if he wants to date m and he's like idk another time late in the year or smt. Then I said yeah I would then he's like what would u do if we dated and I said idk be nicer and stop being aggressive then I'm like these are weird questions and he's like do u like them and I'm like I don't mind them I'm an open person. So then later he then begins to ask where's a place i would mind him kicking or touching in general then im like idk I don't mind touching in general bc my guy friend pats my head and I say head then he's like is that all and I'm like idk i'm confused u can ask the places and I'll say yes or no and then he asks my butt and I say depends but no then he says chest or stomach and I say chest no but if he punches my stomach I'll send him to Jesus. Then he's like is that all and i say yeah then I ask why is he asking me of all people these questions like he ain't gonna touch me and he's like he's not gonna touch me and he doesn't know why he's asking me then I say you really are a freakydicky and he says bru😭.

I'm kinda confused about this bc I feel like I said too much kinda but idk if he just wants the cake or he's actually interested.

So the week of my birthday, we kinda said we were gonna go to the mall. The day before, my dad screamed at me calling me downstairs to come wash dishes for mh mom when my brother clearly told him I was sleeping but he didn't believe it. I came downstairs and of course I was pissed, tired and overstimulated. I then said I don't wanna go to the mall anymore tomorrow. My mom was like then ne and ur dad will just go stroll around the mall. It's as if my mom didn't really care. So then my dad calls me upstairs bc he wants to see if he can transfer money to my bank account. Then my mom calls me downstairs and I'm mad bc she keeps calling me up and down and she can obviously see that I'm frowning. The I go wash the dishes and she then asked in a loud, kinda exaggerating tone why are u frowning ur face and I say nothing then she starts to say shit like so I can't call u downstairs to help me in the kitchen from ood you're eating and atp she's just saying the dumbest shit out there bc I got older brother, one of them barely does house chores, but bc I'm a girl and shit I'm supposed to help her in the kitchen. She then calls my older brother saying angrily don't worry he'll wash the dishes. Now I'm clearly doing that I'm told by washing the dishes and I don't wanna hand them over yo my brother bc she will then lie to my dad saying I didn't wash the dishes. She always lies and I'm getting sick of it bc no matter what I say he won't believe me. Anyways, she then comes to me and drags the sponge out my hand saying my brother will continue and I'm like then you'll go tell dad I didn't wash the dishes, that I didn't help you. She then shouts at me and shit and I walked away. Now I'm already oissed the day before my birthday. Later in the day, I go try talking to my dad and he's obviously not listening so i shake him and he gets mad and standsbup so i run and he walks saying where's that motherfucker many times. They all go out without me to go get a haircut and I was left home alone. When they came back, I opened the door and went back to the couch. (Thus will be an important detail later)

The next day, my birthday. My mom comes to my room shouting at me saying I said I don't want to go to church that she came to wake me up and I didn't wake up. First she's lying, I never said shit, she usually wakes me right, she didn't I saw that she tried to call my phone and usually I silence my phone at night. So then she wakes my little brother instead to go take a shower. She then goes to tell my dad that I said I didn't wanna go to church. I just lay on my bed bc I'm too tired for all this shit. My dad then comes to my room a bit later saying u said u don't wanna go to church I don't care if u didn't take a shower or you go in ur pj's, ur going to church. Of course I don't have time to shower so I just wear decent clothes and go. So then later, I was then talking yo my older brother saying he should follow me to the mall (i was just kidding) my mom then woke up from her nap and went up stairs. Then when I was done talking with my brother i went upstairs and heard that my parents were arguing. My little brother then said it was bc of me. My mom was mad and I heard something like I'll throw her out the house... in the evening, my dad then called me to his room and asked me if I knew I ruined today. Of course I'm pissed bc I had to remind everyone it was my birthday, it was only my aunt who actually called me and I wasn't happy enough to really speak to her. Then he began to tell me why my mom was angry bc I didn't greet her when I opened the door yesterday... bc I can't take that shit seriously. They obviously don't care about my feelings atp. He was now like I'm gonna go apologize to her and shit like that and I'm like you guys ate making the biggest deals about the smallest things. He never talked about when she lies. When she lies and i confront her about it she lies again saying she didn't say shit. Then my dad brings up when I was mad bc he didn't let my have outside school access. I then I go on to try to explain that he doesn't allow me to go out just to even visit friends but he allows my little brother who's younger than me with 3 years. Like even my friend who had an open house party that was out in the open in a fun house place, he didn't let me go when my other friends went. Just to go visit friends in the day time, he doesn't let me go. He be telling me the most uncommon shit that MIGHT happen to me. He does let me express myself either. Just to dye my hair a dark red, not even all my hair just a stripe is a not, to get short nails, no, to get another lobe piercing no. Asked him why he just said he doesn't like it, before he used to say it's not age appropriate but now I know it's because he just doesn't like it. This is why I can't freely talk to them, they don't even know the things I like. Just because I wanted another lobe piercing, he was then like that means I'll be a monster when I'm older.

I'm gonna try to make money myself with art commissions or smt bc my bank account isn't connected to my dad's so he can't do anything to it and I wanna make enough money to move out when I'm 18.

So the week of my birthday, we kinda said we were gonna go to the mall. The day before, my dad screamed at me calling me downstairs to come wash dishes for mh mom when my brother clearly told him I was sleeping but he didn't believe it. I came downstairs and of course I was pissed, tired and overstimulated. I then said I don't wanna go to the mall anymore tomorrow. My mom was like then ne and ur dad will just go stroll around the mall. It's as if my mom didn't really care. So then my dad calls me upstairs bc he wants to see if he can transfer money to my bank account. Then my mom calls me downstairs and I'm mad bc she keeps calling me up and down and she can obviously see that I'm frowning. The I go wash the dishes and she then asked in a loud, kinda exaggerating tone why are u frowning ur face and I say nothing then she starts to say shit like so I can't call u downstairs to help me in the kitchen from ood you're eating and atp she's just saying the dumbest shit out there bc I got older brother, one of them barely does house chores, but bc I'm a girl and shit I'm supposed to help her in the kitchen. She then calls my older brother saying angrily don't worry he'll wash the dishes. Now I'm clearly doing that I'm told by washing the dishes and I don't wanna hand them over yo my brother bc she will then lie to my dad saying I didn't wash the dishes. She always lies and I'm getting sick of it bc no matter what I say he won't believe me. Anyways, she then comes to me and drags the sponge out my hand saying my brother will continue and I'm like then you'll go tell dad I didn't wash the dishes, that I didn't help you. She then shouts at me and shit and I walked away. Now I'm already oissed the day before my birthday. Later in the day, I go try talking to my dad and he's obviously not listening so i shake him and he gets mad and standsbup so i run and he walks saying where's that motherfucker many times. They all go out without me to go get a haircut and I was left home alone. When they came back, I opened the door and went back to the couch. (Thus will be an important detail later)

The next day, my birthday. My mom comes to my room shouting at me saying I said I don't want to go to church that she came to wake me up and I didn't wake up. First she's lying, I never said shit, she usually wakes me right, she didn't I saw that she tried to call my phone and usually I silence my phone at night. So then she wakes my little brother instead to go take a shower. She then goes to tell my dad that I said I didn't wanna go to church. I just lay on my bed bc I'm too tired for all this shit. My dad then comes to my room a bit later saying u said u don't wanna go to church I don't care if u didn't take a shower or you go in ur pj's, ur going to church. Of course I don't have time to shower so I just wear decent clothes and go. So then later, I was then talking yo my older brother saying he should follow me to the mall (i was just kidding) my mom then woke up from her nap and went up stairs. Then when I was done talking with my brother i went upstairs and heard that my parents were arguing. My little brother then said it was bc of me. My mom was mad and I heard something like I'll throw her out the house... in the evening, my dad then called me to his room and asked me if I knew I ruined today. Of course I'm pissed bc I had to remind everyone it was my birthday, it was only my aunt who actually called me and I wasn't happy enough to really speak to her. Then he began to tell me why my mom was angry bc I didn't greet her when I opened the door yesterday... bc I can't take that shit seriously. They obviously don't care about my feelings atp. He was now like I'm gonna go apologize to her and shit like that and I'm like you guys ate making the biggest deals about the smallest things. He never talked about when she lies. When she lies and i confront her about it she lies again saying she didn't say shit. Then my dad brings up when I was mad bc he didn't let my have outside school access. I then I go on to try to explain that he doesn't allow me to go out just to even visit friends but he allows my little brother who's younger than me with 3 years. Like even my friend who had an open house party that was out in the open in a fun house place, he didn't let me go when my other friends went. Just to go visit friends in the day time, he doesn't let me go. He be telling me the most uncommon shit that MIGHT happen to me. He does let me express myself either. Just to dye my hair a dark red, not even all my hair just a stripe is a not, to get short nails, no, to get another lobe piercing no. Asked him why he just said he doesn't like it, before he used to say it's not age appropriate but now I know it's because he just doesn't like it. This is why I can't freely talk to them, they don't even know the things I like. Just because I wanted another lobe piercing, he was then like that means I'll be a monster when I'm older.

I'm gonna try to make money myself with art commissions or smt bc my bank account isn't connected to my dad's so he can't do anything to it and I wanna make enough money to move out when I'm 18.