Paladin and EK meta help
Hello everyone, got two questions here regarding martials with cast capabilities and how they should build out their stats/attributes
For paladins, I always hear you should do +3 STR(or DEX) and +3 CHA, because aura good and spells might require good casting stat. For me, I build out characters using the standard array and the only way I know to do that is by having the stats both be 16’s, which mean no feat besides ASI at level 4 if you want 18 in either of those stats. GWM and Dual Wielder both are quite good, so why would you want to focus on some (imo) mediocre casting instead of just using smites or divine favor? The question to answer is the following; If you are using standard array and you wish to have +3 in STR and CHA for your aura’s and spells, will that be better than fully specializing into a martial play style using GWM or DW.
For the flip side, on EK is it worth trying to make Shillelagh on a quarterstaff work (generally means no shield because spellcasting rules), or should you just ignore it and have high STR/DEX for your attack stat?