What should I do?
so tell me I am wrong. My problem is growing up no one told me keeping ur feelings inside and not saying at that moment was bad. When I was young I was very quiet doing my own things.
I didn’t realize it until my mom pointed out that it’s bad to keep ur emotions inside and she told me to let out. Growing up if I had beef with one member of my family I would shut down and wouldn’t speak to anyone in my family or say anything because I like to have my own space. Sometime it could be weeks and my family expect it for me to forget, and I can’t. I have ended friendships with this issue.
When it comes to friendships I do say what bothers me but some people don’t take it serious so I let slide and that builds up to multiple stuff until I explode and count those stuff one by one, I know it’s bad but I can’t help it, so I started working to fixing this problem by this year and I had issue with friend of mine I straight up told her the issue I had with her she started telling me that was “disrespectful”.
So what do I do at this point. I am really nice I really respect people their boundaries and I feel like my boundaries get tested especially when it comes to friendships. I end friendships and move on like I never had friendships with that person I leave them alone completely.