u/Keyboard_warrior_4U

It sounds obvious but most of my life I've pursued people I liked who (most of the times) didnt really felt anything back. Those who did liked me, I made them feel underappreciated ☹️ because I thought that I wasn't worth of those emotions. In reality, it was my insecurities and limerance that kept me alone, not life. So I promise to myself that I'm gonna cultivate strong relations with people that DO like me and make sure they feel as valued or more than they value me.

Has anybody else been in the same boat?

I'm looking for something like Eternal Shine of the Spotless Mind, White Masai (2005), or Blue Valentine (2010) basically. A beautiful love story that was doomed from the start

Everytime I'm in a group I feel I can't tune up with the vibe. Sometimes I even say something to a person while saying their name and it goes unnoticed. It's embarrasing and infuriating at the same time.

I've thought maybe I should focus on getting one person's attention and then that would atteact the others to me (has worked for me at times) but I don't feel it's a complete strategy.

Is there anything else I'm missing? I'm tired of disappearing among the crowd

Most popular songs talk about love. But I'd love to know more fun "FU, I'm too good for you" type songs like Moderatto's Ya Lo Veia Venir or Mana's Me Vale. Any clue that can help? I specially like when it's a man singing (I'm a man)

I'm questioning myself because I don't know if my lack of libido is due to low T or psychological. I'm on therapy and exercise to see if I can bring them up naturally but I'm not feeling any improvement yet.

I'd just love to hear from others in my situation to see if I'm worrying about nothing. Thanks

Most songs I know are filled with "I wana kiss you/make love to you/etc to you." I wanna sing them to someone without the presumption/embarrasment of verses that say I wanna have sex with her or whatever. Basically something platonic is the word I'm looking for

Alex Ubago's Aunque no te pueda ver is a good example