u/Key_Contact_2790

I (21F) am too embarrassed to tell my boyfriend (22M) about my spanking fetish. We already practice it in the general sense of a few slaps during sex. But I don’t know how to explain that I want him to take me over his knee, use an implement, and just generally do entire spanking scenes because I can’t overcome the shame or embarrassment; it feels like such a vulnerable thing to ask for. I’m scared that he’s going to say no and it’ll be awkward and/or think I’m weird. We generally communicate very well in our relationship and I don’t think he would shame me but I don’t want this to change how he sees me.