u/Key_Calligrapher9433

I’m part of a throuple with two women (I’m a woman too). They had been together for about 2 years before I joined, and I’ve been with them for around 5 months now.

Lately, I’ve been feeling less like an actual partner and more like their emotional mediator or therapist. I’m often the one trying to keep balance, helping with communication, and managing tension between them. But when it comes to emotional priority, I often feel like they naturally prioritize each other first, and I end up feeling left out.

I’m not someone who believes romantic validation is the center of life, but I’m starting to feel exhausted and emotionally disconnected. I don’t want to be the “moderator” of a relationship—I want to feel like an equal partner in it.

Has anyone here experienced something similar when joining an already established couple? How did you handle the feeling of not being treated as an equal partner?

Oie! Tudo bem? Eu estou atualmente em um emprego de auxiliar de contabilidade e eu odeio, eu ganho um salario baixissimo e sinceramente? todo meu trabalho ta sendo substituindo por IA. Eu sempre tive o sonho de ser auditora, comprei um curso de auditoria externa e interna que eu vou fazer e assim procurar empregos na area de auditoria, mas eu to meio cega no tiroteiro e precisaria de auxilio e dicar de pessoas dessa area. Eu tenho ingles fluente (nao sei se e algum diferencial pra ser sincera), estou disposta a estudar muito, de verdade, eu so to meio perdida com o que começar, como procurar as vagas e como me comportar como futura auditora. Obrigada!