I’ve (25F) identified as asexual for like ten years now and I’ve had moments of questioning throughout the years (I’m a sucker for nice people. Sue me I’m lonely). I have thought maybe I was attracted to specific body types/parts? But then quickly realizing no I don’t.
The feeling that I’ve always confused for attraction might just be gender envy lol I saw a TikTok of a lesbian explaining this for her when it came to men and I was like…..wait yeah….there’s specific types of guys and girls I gravitate to and specific parts and it’s literally because I want to have it. I want my boobs a big bigger but I also want to be buff etc.
Basically: I don’t want you, I want to be you
This honestly cleared up some things for me lol. Still ace.
Anyone relate?