u/Key-Thanks-9636

Am I the bad guy for giving my SIL boundaries with her now boyfriend and his kids.

My SIL recently divorced her husband for her current bf. They have 5 kids between them. My fiancé (her brother) and I have been navigating this whole situation as we are constantly being asked to watch the 5 kids along with our 2 kids. We put up boundaries for this as we can not manage 7 kids at once. She now she is asking us to be more involved with her boyfriend’s kids such as birthdays and play dates. Plays dates are fine when all children are involved but my issues is she is requiring us to buy his kids gift now. When they only been dating for about 6 months. I feel like everything is being forced. I need advice.